Emile Cioran
Write books only if you are
going to say in them the things you would never dare confide
to anyone.
Carlos
Castaneda
The
basic difference between an ordinary man and a warrior is that a warrior takes
everything as a challenge while an ordinary man takes everything as either a
blessing or a curse.
M. Scott Peck
Life is difficult. This is one of the greatest truths
because once we truly get it- we transcend it. Once we accept this, then life
is no longer difficult. Because once we accept it, the fact that it is
difficult no longer matters.
Tony Hawks
Things can be done. The people in life
who get them done are the ones who know that, and the ones who don't are the
rest.
Malcom Muggeridge
Every happening, great and small, is a parable whereby God
speaks to us, and the art of life is to get the message
The most terrible thing about materialism, even more
terrible than its proneness to violence, is its boredom, from which sex,
alcohol, drugs, all devices for putting out the accusing light of reason and
suppressing the unrealizable aspirations of love, offer a prospect of
deliverance.”
Sex is the mysticism of materialism and the only possible
religion in a materialistic society.
I can say that I never knew what joy was like until I gave
up pursuing happiness, or cared to live until I chose to die. For these two
discoveries I am beholden to Jesus.
The pursuit of happiness, which American citizens are
obliged to undertake, tends to involve them in trying to perpetuate the moods, tastes
and aptitudes of youth.
Travel, of course, narrows the mind.
Charles Baudelaire
Sexuality is the lyricism of the masses.
JD Salinger
All we do our
whole, lives long is to go from one pice of holy ground to another.
Scott Fitzgerald
It is in the
thirties that we want friends. In the forties we know that they won’t save us
any more than love did.
Mark Twain
Twenty years from
now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones
you did. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the
trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream.
Gerard Manley
Hopkins
The world is
charged with the grandeur of God
Thomas Carlyle
The past is
attractive because it is drained of fear.
Robin Skynner
An intense
preoccupation with politics is usually a means of putting painful personal
conflicts outside ourselves, disowning them.
Alexandre Dumas fils
It is only
rarely that one can see in a litle boy the promise of a man, but one can almost
always see in a little girl the threat of a woman.
Peter Drucker
Brilliant men are
often strikingly ineffectual; they fail to realize that the brilliant insight
is not by itself achievement. They never have learned that insights become
effectiveness only through hard systematic work.
The
most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said.
St Ignatius
A thick and shapeless tree-trunk would never believe
that it could become a statue, admired as a miracle of sculpture, and would
never submit itself to the chisel of the sculptor, who sees by his genius what
he can make of it.
There are very few people who realise what God would
make of them if they abandoned themselves into his hands and let themselves be
formed by his grace.
Eckhart Tolle
The greater part of human pain is unnecessary. It is self-created as
long as the unobserved mind runs your life.
Christopher
Booker
The state of someone who has failed to overcome his fantasy
self, and find his central unity, is that of someone who still cannot, at the
deepest level of his being, take anything seriously except his own ego.
Aldous
Huxley
An intellectual is someone who has found something
more interesting than sex.
WH Auden
To the man in the street who,
I’m sorry to say,
Is a keen observer of life
The word intellectual merely
denotes
A man who cheats on his wife.
Voltaire
The secret of being a bore is to tell everything.
Alfred Adler
A clumsy right hand cannot be trained into a skillful right
hand by taking thought, by wishing it were less clumsy, or even by avoiding
clumsiness. It can become skillful only by exercise in practical achievements,
and the incentive to the achievement must be more deeply felt than the discouragement
at the hitherto existent clumsiness.
There is no such thing as talent. There is
pressure.
More important than innate disposition, objective
experience, and environment is the subjective evaluation of these. Furthermore,
this evaluation stands in a certain, often strange, relation to reality.
Meanings are not determined by situations, but we determine
ourselves by the meanings we give to situations.
Every individual acts and suffers in accordance with his
peculiar teleology, which has all the inevitability of fate, so long as he does
not understand it.
Behind everyone who behaves as if he were superior to
others, we can suspect a feeling of inferiority which calls for very special
efforts of concealment. It is as if a man feared that he was too small and
walked on his toes to make himself seem taller.
The self-bound individual always forgets that his self
would be safeguarded better and automatically the more he prepares himself for
the welfare of mankind, and that in this respect no limits are set for him.
The chief danger in life is that you may take
too many precautions.
Lawrence Durrell
You have two birth-places you
have the place where you were born and then you have a place of predilection
when really you wake up to reality....
Before my love has a chance
to crystalise, it turns into a deep, a devouring friendship.
A woman's best love letters
are always written to the man she is betraying.
Jonathan Ames
I'm reminded of this line from the movie The Red Shoes:
"Life rushes by, time rushes by, but the Red Shoes go on dancing
forever." All of that applies to me, except for the red shoes part.
Everything seems to be rushing by, and I'm floating above it all, reaching my
hand out to life, but not quite grasping it, like waving your hand for a taxi
that is clearly occupied.
David
Aaronovitch
In his book about British Second World
War traitors Sean Murphy, the author, recounts the words of a convicted Waffen
SS volunteer, Benson Railton Freeman. Sentenced to ten years’ jail for
treachery, Freeman told his lawyer: “This just shows how rotten this democracy
is. The Germans would have had the honesty to shoot me.”
I love his disappointment.
Holbrook Jackson
Happiness is a form of courage.
Eleanor
Roosevelt:
If, as I can't help suspecting, the dead also feel
the pains of separation (and this may be one of their purgatorial sufferings),
then for both lovers, and for all pairs of lovers without exception,
bereavement is a universal and integral part of our experience of love.
Probably the happiest period in life most frequently
is in middle age, when the eager passions of youth are cooled, and the
infirmities of age not yet begun; as we see that the shadows, which are at
morning and evening so large, almost entirely disappear at midday.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by
each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do
that which we think we cannot.
Wilhelm Stekel:
Anxiety is fear of one's
self.
Fervid atheism is usually
a screen for repressed religion.
Picasso